House of Memories. My First Anniversary Blog

“House of Memories is a very good idea put into practice”.  So reads the opening sentence of Liverpool National Museums’ description of a training programme designed to enhance the lives of those with dementia – and I couldn’t agree more.  As with all the best ideas,...

A Love Story

It was New Year’s eve at the Ilford Palais.  As midnight struck, a young man asked a girl to kiss him, once for 1966, and then again (cheekily) for 1967.  And that, as 64-year-old Jan Inman tells me, was how it all began. The story of Jan and her husband Ron runs to...

Care, Farms & Dementia

I first heard about care farms at an Alzheimer Europe conference, where I discovered that they are used extensively in the Netherlands as an alternative to day care centres for those with dementia. It’s a wonderful, heart-warming concept that brings people with...

Hospices & their ethos of care

I used to have an irrational fear of hospices.   The very sound of the word, with its soft susurrations, whispered to me of sorrow and foreboding.  On the rare occasions I allowed myself to imagine what a hospice might be like, I conjured up visions of corridors...

Hen Power

Sometimes in life, in a piece of writing or music or art, at a given moment or over a longer period, everything comes together – it all just works, often seemingly by chance.  And when it does, it’s magic, with the whole providing so much more than the sum of its...

Care home abuse & audio tapes. Zoe’s story.

Imagine being confronted with concrete evidence that your husband, who has dementia and lives in a nursing home, is being abused by those responsible for his care.  Think how you’d feel as you switched on the small tape recorder you’d hidden behind a chest of drawers...